Is it time for help ?

Coming to the realization that a loved one might need home care can be an overwhelming process. There are many questions that come up when your aging loved one is having trouble with activities of daily living (ADL’s). There are typical warning signs to watch for, but sometimes the signs may be more subtle. If you can relate to any of these questions it may be time to ask: does your loved one need help to stay at home?

Senior driving

Q: When my mother drives, she drifts into other lanes and goes very slow. She is still very sharp and insists that she is fine to drive. She gets annoyed when I suggest doing the driving instead. What should I do?

A: This is a sensitive topic of conversation. For many seniors, giving up their car keys means a loss of independence. In every state, there are drivier safety courses  available online and in classrooms. You can also hire a caregiver who will take care of the transportation, running errands and shopping with your loved one.

Medications and your loved one

Q: My mom takes several medications per day. I have noticed that she has been missing doses lately. How do I ensure that she is taking her medicine correctly?

A: Consider hiring a caregiver to stop in for medication reminders. There are also automated medication dispensers on the market you can purchase.

Chores and homemaking

Q: My parents’ house is becoming increasingly cluttered and they are doing house chores less often than they used to. I have my own house to maintain and can’t devote the time to do their up-keep, too! What should I do?

A.  As we age, it is common to have difficulty keeping up with the demands of housekeeping and yard work. Caregivers and various in home help can perform homemaker services, giving your loved one the clean, safe and healthy home they deserve. I am more than happy to go in and help with laundry, changing bed linens, running errands, eliminating hazards and more.